{highs & lows} november 2013

by Lila on November 29, 2013

Highs and lows of November{photo by Max Kellenberger}

Ready or not here we go. The highs and lows of November…

Highs

  • Setting up our nursery piece by piece. Specifically, building the crib with my honey and filling it with handmade quilts from our loved ones (thank you Mama Debbie and Aunt Susan!)
  • Teaching my math groups at Emerson Elementary. Watching my students kill it on decimal multiplication problems set my heart a flutter. 
  • Hearing my baby’s heartbeat at every doctors appointment.
  • Helping my business grow and seeing my cake banners around the webiverse like here and here.

Lows

  • Missing Jeff during his late nights at the office. 
  • Feeling like I cannot control my own body, like my brain has been taken over by someone else. Totally worth it, but tricky!
  • Constantly forgetting my reusable bags. This is small, I know, but it happened all month. And they charge now. Cray.

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{giving thanks} 2013

by Lila on November 28, 2013

Give-thanks-cupcakeHappy Thanksgiving! I’ve always really enjoyed the idea of having a time of year dedicated to giving thanks. I’ve kept a thankful journal on and off throughout my life, recording the small things that are so easy to let slip by with no notice. It feels good to flip through those pages and reflect on all the moments life has offered us that help us grow and become who we are.

This hear has been a big one for me as an individual and for my family as a whole. I thought I might start a little tradition of writing a list of what I am most thankful for each year. Here is the first of hopefully many lists of thankful thoughts.

I am thankful for…

…having the courage and loving support to leave my incredible job as a teacher to pursue my other passions. I am a creature of habit who loves stability and who loves my students even more. Taking this path was a huge deal for me. Being here is exciting and something I have dreamed of doing.

…the little one growing bigger and bigger inside my belly. He is kicking as I write this and I cannot wait to meet him and watch him grow.

…the incredible family and friends I have in my life. The loving community that surrounds us means so much to me, especially during this year of big changes. So much love.

…our little urban flock of two. They make me smile and laugh, following me around the garden and pecking at my sweatpants. Plus the eggs are delicious.

…for my honey. Jeff is an unending source of strength and support. He is excited about my business and art. After eleven years together he still asks about the highs and lows of my day when he gets home. He tells me how beautiful I am to him, even on days when my confidence fails. Even when works keeps him away and life is busy, I know how much he cares about our life together. He is my rock.

…for the hardships that we have dealt with. The loss, the sickness, the heartache. I am grateful for it because it has brought me closer to the ones I love. It has proved my strength. It has helped me grow.

 What are you thankful for this year?

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Happy Birthday Cake Banner from Lingering Daydreams{photography by Ashlee Gadd}

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Happy Birthday Cake Banner from Lingering Daydreams{photography by Ashlee Gadd}

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{captured} babymoon

by Lila on November 24, 2013

Jeff&PregoBabymoonWe escaped. Just the two and a half of us. We spent a couple days hidden away in Santa Cruz, phones off, world left behind for 72 hours.

Jeff&PregoBabymoon2I loved every minute of it. With Jeff’s busy work life and my new business it has been hard to find time for the two of us to just be together, to make time to soak up the incredible miracle of this little guy growing inside me. In Santa Cruz, that was exactly what we did. Talked about each other and our wonder at the bump that keeps growing with every week.

It wasn’t a week away to a tropical island, but it was our little babymoon. And it was just what I needed.

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{celebrate} my baby shower!

by Lila on November 22, 2013

DSC_0140_rounded_corners{Sharilyn, Me, & Kelly}

It is not often that all the facets of my life come together. I am lucky to have a large, loving community of family and friends that has slowly grown throughout the years. Because my parents are divorced and I tend to collect one or two close friends from every phase of my life, it is a community that doesn’t all originate from one place. The people who I hold near and dear to me are scattered amid different locations, have different beliefs, and don’t necessarily know each other. So when they come together, I feel especially lucky and loved.

Recently I got to see many of my people together in one place to celebrate the thing that had been filling my head and heart for months: our very first little one. Having everyone there to shower our unborn baby with love made me so grateful for the life that I have and the people who are in it.

When I told my sister-in-law, Kelly that I was pregnant, she asked right away if she could throw my baby shower. Without missing a beat, my second sister-in-law, Sharilyn, joined her and the two of them put together an incredible party. The love and creativity that went into every detail made me feel so loved. There are things that people think of when they know you, really know you, that maybe not everyone notices, but you do. It was a special day.

THE DETAILS

Baby Shower WreathGuests were greeted at the door with a homemade wreath with the invite tucked into felt flowers.

Gavin+MustacheMy stickin’ adorable nephew helped promote the mustache theme.

PatioThe weather was kind to us, even in late October and allowed us to have our party outside. The patio was decked out with orange and aqua. Organza streamers and paper lanterns hung from the pergola. A handcrafted “oh boy” sign sat above the fireplace.

YardThe yard was filled with tables covered in linen table clothes and adorable center pieces. Paper lanterns hung across the garden.

CenterpieceThe centerpieces gave a nod to the season and tied into the mustache theme.

CakeKelly made an incredible chocolate cake with ombre frosting, I was impressed. She borrowed the cake banner we used to announce the gender of our little one.

CookiesThese incredibly tasty and adorable cookies came from my talented friend Cami of www.decoratedbycami.com. Her cookie recipe is melt-in-your-mouth delicious.

PopcornSharilyn put together an adorable popcorn station. I loved the signage: “Lila is ready to pop!” and “Stach some popcorn for later!”

RocketManA onesie decorating station was set up to the side. Amazing.

FoodI could tell you more, like the incredible gifts I received, which included two handmade quilts, one from my mother-in-law and the other from my aunt Susan. I could go on and on about the food or the paper straws in aqua mason jar glasses that sat on the bar. I could describe the games that were put together by dear friends. I could tell you about the “Welcome Little Man” banner that hung above the buffet table and about the flower arrangements. Everywhere I turned there was another thoughtful, beautiful, creative detail.

Kelly, Sharilyn, and all the people who I know must have helped, thank you for throwing such an incredible shower to welcome our little guy into the world. Debbie and Dan, thank you for letting us invade your home and yard. Everybody who was there, thank you for your love and being there to celebrate with me! It won’t be forgotten. This little guy is so lucky to have you all as part of his life already.

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{care packages} off to college

by Lila on October 30, 2013

AllWrappedMy little sis went off to college this year. Bittersweet for me. I miss her dearly, but am so excited she is getting to experience such a wonderful adventure. The bright side is that I love putting together care packages, so with her at a distance I am getting to do just that.

AllGiftsThe first one was fun because I didn’t have to worry about it being too big or heavy to ship. It was gimongous because it encompassed so much: going away to college, her eighteenth birthday, and graduation. I like nothing more than a gift that you get to unveil bit by bit, so each item was wrapped separately with a tag that hinted at its importance. The first large tag ended with, “Here are a couple things so that you…” The little tags and gifts were as follows:

  • Lottery tickets “…have fun trying your luck at new things.”
  • Stylin’ Sweatshirt “…are comfortable and stylish, as would be expected.”
  • Fuzzy Blanket “…stay warm & cozy.”
  • Toolkit “…can fix it when it’s broken.”
  • Sister Journal (from when I went to college) “…don’t forget the past.”
  • New Sister Journal “…keep in touch.”
  • Pocket Reminders “…remember the important things on your first day.”

TagsAll the gifts were wrapped in the blanket and tucked into a milk crate, cute and functional. Gotta love it. My favorite parts to watch her open were the heartfelt gifts.
OriginalJournalWhen I went away to college Caley was around six years old I think. I made her a journal that we could send back and forth and fill with letters, poems, drawings, pictures…whatever would help us stay in touch. Given that it was her turn to move away, I made us a new journal to send back and forth.
CircleJournal

JournalFill-inBefore wrapping it up and wrote in it and created the page above for her to fill in with a bunch of her favorite things and thoughts. When she looks back it will be a snapshot of what she loved, a tiny time capsule.  (It might even help me put some future care packages together…)PocketReminders My other favorite item in the package was the pocket reminders. I found this idea one day perusing pinterest. I loved it. I altered it a little and fit all my items into a little tin with a note that read:

“Some things to keep in your pocket on the first day of school.”

  • An eraser to make all those little mistakes disappear.
  • A penny, so you’ll never be completely broke.
  • A rubber band to help you stretch beyond your limits.
  • A paper clip to hold it all together when it seems to be falling apart.
  • A marble for the days you’re sure you’ve lost yours.
  • And a kiss to remind that you’re loved.

PocketReminders2To really carry it over the top, I found a 2013 penny, so if she actually keeps it, it will have the year she went to college on it. A good luck charm of sorts. To make the note fit into the tin I folded it middle-school-style, does anybody else remember doing this? I couldn’t believe I could still figure it out.

Love you sis!

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{nursery} art prints

by Lila on October 25, 2013

Screen Shot 2013-10-24 at 12.51.32 PM{for like ever, world map, star chart, bug print}

I do love a good gallery wall. Doesn’t really matter where or what you frame. I actually like collections that are a little off beat or combine candid photos with pieces of art. So, I have been on a mission to find a collection of nursery prints to go above the crib.

Gathering art prints is one of my favorite things, but making the final decisions is never easy for me. The above are my top runners… I think. Two things I have been keeping in mind are: the light aqua color of the walls and that I want to select art that can grow with our little one. The hubby isn’t sure how he feels about the “for like ever” print, but I think it would be a fun large piece! The gray would look beautiful next to the aqua of the wall and the size and textures would keep the collection from getting too busy looking.

Other prints high on the list include:

OhthePlaceYoullGo{oh, the places, you’ll go}


MIN-JYM-GNA-002H_B_APDF{enjoy all the little things}

il_570xN.504330859_su0p{I love you to the moon and back}

I really do want to know what you think! Which prints are your favorite? What do you think looks good together? Are there prints you love that I haven’t found in my trolling through pinterest, etsy, and Minted?

Can’t wait to hear what you think!

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interview with create & thrive

by Lila on October 22, 2013

Screen Shot 2013-10-22 at 9.18.32 AMBe sure to stop by and check out my interview at Create & Thrive today! Read about how I got started, the challenges I faced, my inspiration, and more personal tidbits about who I am as a designer and business owner!

Create & Thrive is a great resource for anyone curious about starting or expanding their handcrafted business. You can find resources on how to open an etsy shop, run on an online craft business, and great advice on marketing. You can also find more interviews like mine and hear about the of success of handmade business from a diverse collection of creators.

Thank you so much Megan Eckman and Jess Van Den for taking the time to learn a little bit about me and sharing it with others!

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{nursery} diy changing table

by Lila on October 17, 2013

DresserFinal2_rounded_cornersI love our nursery so far. It comes together little by little, at a slow, but consistent rate. It is like a puzzle that stays out on the coffee table, where you stop and put pieces together when you have time. The most recent addition is our refurbished changing table that I have fallen head over heals for. I was totally inspired by the wood + white trend I have been seeing around. Planning to paint the exterior of the dresser freed us up to find a piece that was a little damaged here or there, as long as the drawers could be finished in a beautiful way.

I have to give a lot of credit to the hubby for this one. He was worried about the fumes, so he did most of the painting and all of the refinishing. I’m a lucky lady.

The steps were pretty straight forward.

Changing-Table-Before1. First, we found dresser on craigslist. My biggest practical consideration was the height of the dresser. Most changing tables I looked up online were around 37 inches tall. I figured there was some rhyme or reason for this, so I attempted to find something similar. I didn’t want anything too low that would force us to bend over every time we changed a diaper. The design feature that I had my eye on was decorative legs.

DresserProgress22. Then, we painted the exterior of dresser with Annie Sloan chalk paint. I adore this paint because it adheres to surfaces whether you strip them of previous finishes or not. Given that striping finish is one of my least favorite things to do, Annie Sloan chalk paint has made itself a special home in my heart. We used Pure White to match the modern white touches that are planned for the rest of the room.

3. Next, we applied clear wax over chalk paint, also available through Annie Sloan. This wax seals the dresser and creates a really nice matte finish.

4. Finally, we refinished the drawers by removing hardware, sanding down, applying our chosen stain, and reattaching hardware.

Now it is just a matter of adding a changing pad. I’m hoping for this gorgeous changing pad cover from Ivie Baby. The patterns and colors she uses for her designs are lovely. Add a couple of art prints and a mobile and this spot might turn into one of my favorite parts of the nursery.

What are your favorite parts of the nurseries you’ve seen? Anything your couldn’t live without?

Your can check out the nursery mood board here.

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{love letters} to my little one

by Lila on September 18, 2013

Blogtember topic for the day: Write a public love letter to someone in your life. (It doesn’t necessarily need to be romantic.)

Dear Little One,

You are growing so quickly now, I find it shocking to look at my bump. My belly has started to visibly move when you kick me, which makes your existence even more real. I have relished being pregnant with you. We go on walks most mornings around the neighborhood. It is my time to slow down and pay attention to you and try to feel how you might be growing. They saying walking can lull an unborn baby to sleep, but sometimes you stay up, kicking me as we walk by neighbors’ houses.

My baby bump has turned into a serious baby belly and is a reminder that you are going to be entering the world soon. I cannot wait. I am so looking forward to all of it. What will you look like? Do you have your dad’s eyes? Do you have my nose? What will your hair look like? Are you  be super active or mellow? What will it be like to have a little person to care for and carry around and feed and bathe? I cannot wait to find out.

Right now I carry you with me everywhere. We walk together and read together. You work with me throughout the day. I’m smitten with you already. If I’m going to be honest, I think I am going to miss this bump once you are born. But I cannot wait for the next phase. I cannot wait to meet you. I cannot wait to be a mama and to see your dad be a dada.

You are so loved already!
Love,
Mom


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